How to Deal With Falling in Love
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Steps
- Love can make you happy, or it can cause you pain. Loving a girl that loves you back is the goal of every relationship.
- Decide if the girl really feels the same as you do, before you go all out, and become too emotionally invested.
- Build the relationship first. Some girls do not like a person to be too overpowering, or too 'giving'. They might just take advantage of you, and then break up with you. You might also overwhelm someone and that will scare them off and burn out the relationship.
- Get to know each other, talk and laugh, and share stories about family, pets, books, and movies you enjoy. It is always better to fall in love with someone who is also your best friend.
- Enjoy each other, and date, and if, in time, you fall out of love with her, or she with you, accept it. There is really nothing you can do to change it. Enjoy the moment, and then go on to the future.
Tips
- If you really love that girl, try to get her back. Do not beg, just talk to her, and see if there is a chance of getting together again. If she says no, then accept it and go on.
- Do not let the circumstances from a past love make you fearful of loving someone new.
- Truly, there are 2 forms of "love." A strong, long-lasting one and a short, but initially just as strong love. Before you make the decision that you really do love this person, give it some time and a lot of thought.
- Understand that with love comes a chance of getting hurt, but you will know if it is worth it by how you feel. No one ever forgets their first love, but they also can't wait.
Warnings
- Girls/guys might be playing games with you. Some enjoy making a guy love them, so that they can break up with them. Be aware of this. Listen with your ears, and not your heart,and be patient for your true love...
- If you sense that she is not being truthful, then accept your feelings. Get out and meet someone else. But don't "just" do it. What if you're wrong? Be sure.
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5 comments:
wow very nice post (^_^) I never expected someone like you "astig" can post something like this
naks maka in love man pud ni oi
as for me yeah much better bitaw friends muna kayo kaysa jump to being in love right away mas ok kasi un may foundation (^_^)
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ouch,, mao ng gina ingon nga pag ma inlove gani..pag-sure-sure jud.. :P
hi denz!! nice post, =)
hala oie!dealing with falling in love man jud ang gipost oie. unsaon kaya nah? daw beh....sultihi ko unsaon kay murag anad man jud ka anang in love.. ehem! ani diay ning magka "someone else noh? mga love2x ang topic. nice one! hehe..=)
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